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| Some People Spend A Lot of Money To Prove They Can't be Cured. |
Can Hypnotherapy help everyone? Absolutely not. Some people would consider their lives ruined if they
were cured of their problems. Their problems make them who they are. They spend a lot of money to
prove they can't be cured.
The "rewards" of being incurable.
Susan is one of them. Her back gets rigid, she turns her face away and crosses her arms as she
announces, “I don’t believe in that stuff!" The last thing she wants to hear is that phobias are
conditioned responses and usually respond quickly to hypnosis.
Susan carries a cane everywhere and turns every conversation to her "problem". Once she starts, she
babbles incessantly about how awful it is that, ever since she slipped on the ice in a shopping center
parking lot, she can't go anywhere without someone to lean on. She breaks into a sweat, can't breathe,
and gets horribly dizzy. She gets around inside her house just fine, but the minute she steps outside,
even with a cane that she really doesn't need, she panics. Her husband or adult children have to take her
everywhere - shopping, to visit friends, to the doctors. She is terrified of going out alone.
Do you see the benefit here? What would happen if she were cured? How would she manage to get that
same kind of attention from her family?
Yes, there are people who don’t want to get better. Most of them don't know it. They would spit, sputter,
rage or cry, if you dared to suggest such a thing. Nevertheless, an astonishing number of “problems“ are
cultivated for the rewards they produce.
Pain and phobias generate attention, sympathy, and an excuse for avoiding what you don’t want to do.
Obesity is a great deterrent to sexual advances, absolves you from physical activity, and allows you to
eat whatever you want. Smoking provides reasons to stall, escape, or take a break. Alcohol and drugs
"excuse" all kinds of outrageous behavior - "Yes, Your Honor, but he only hits me when he's been
drinking."
And, if you have plenty of money or good insurance, you can do a continuous round of medical tests and
medications, which can keep you out of work for long periods of time. In a lawsuit happy world, it's really
hard to get medical professionals to tell you there's nothing wrong with you. They can't take the risk that
there might be something they missed.
Brainwashed to be inadequate
That’s doesn't meant that everyone who has a problem is hooked on the rewards. It is very possible that
there are beliefs hidden in the subconscious mind – limitations unintentionally embedded in the trusting
mind of a child by a well-meaning adult - that cause the problem. Negative self-concepts don’t always
come from abuse; more often, they come from a caring or careless parent or teacher.
“Sandy takes after me…everything she eats settles in the middle. It’s in our genes to be built
like beach balls.”
“Melanie is all nerves, just like my sister, poor thing.”
“Joey got the brains and the looks, but Beth has such a good heart.”
Do Sandy, Melanie, and Beth remember those statements as adults? They can, but they often don't. They
just live their lives accepting that these statements are laws of the universe. Sandy yoyos through
Weight Watchers, Atkins and South Beach, Melanie starts every day with Prozac. Beth holds the same
entry-level job in the nursing home that she took ten years ago. They all wish they were capable of more,
but they BELIEVE the limits set for them in their childhoods.
What you believe is what you become. Once the subconscious accepts an idea, it remains until it is
replaced by another idea.
Hypnosis can't help those who don't want to change.
It sounds like a light bulb joke: How many hypnotherapists does it take to change a light bulb? Only
one, but it really has to want to change.
People often call hypnotists because a spouse, child, or parent has problems that make the caller very
unhappy and distressed. One woman called because her husband was a three-pack-a-day smoker who
needed surgery for lung cancer. The surgeon refused to operate until the man quit smoking. As it turned
out, the man was grateful for the surgeon's refusal. The last thing he wanted was his lung removed. He
was more able to accept dying than the surgery. It was a tragic situation.
Every individual has a right to make their own decisions. Nobody can be hypnotized against their will and
hypnosis cannot force someone to do anything he doesn't want to do. Nobody can be compelled to act in
opposition to his beliefs. The subconscious mind will simply refuse to accept the instructions.
That’s where hypnotherapy works. Hypnotherapists are trained to work directly with the subconscious
mind to discover and change misconceptions and limiting beliefs that are the basis for addictions, habits,
fears, and negative behaviors. Permanent weight loss, public speaking, new job skills, pain management,
smoking, sports and sales performance are all controlled by the beliefs held in your subconscious mind.
Hypnotherapy is a natural drug-free way of reprogramming your mind to a more positive reality.
But, it works only if you want to change.
The three keys to change are DESIRE, BELIEF, and EXPECTATION. (click on the title to read the article)
If you are ready to program the confidence you need to begin to make those changes into your
subconscious mind, you are a perfect candidate for the new CD...."YOU CAN DO ANYTHING".
"YOU CAN DO ANYTHING" uses a very powerful double induction technique that quickly
bypasses the critical conscious mind and gently implants new concepts of confidence in the
subconscious mind. It will be available in a few days and you may send an email to
admin@changebyhypnosis.com if you want to know more...or you can check back here in a couple
days.